ABOUT TAMARA
Hi! I'm Tamara.
I am a licensed therapist in private practice with over 10 years of experience transforming thousands of lives. My specialty is trauma and I have always found deep meaning in helping people transmute their pain into healing and purpose. But after many years of pouring everything into my career, I began to slowly burn out, get sick, and lose myself. Women are often taught to put everything and everyone first while our own wants, needs, and desires wither away. Because of this, women are often left unfulfilled, misaligned, and miserable. I made a decision. I was not going to keep sacrificing my life for a system that was never designed to pour back into me. I believed I could have it all. A meaningful career, real wealth, and a life of freedom. Without choosing between them.
In the last two and a half years, I stepped into a new chapter. I spent that time immersing myself in the world of business, sales, and marketing. I tried a lot and failed a lot. I studied and applied what actually works, invested in mentors, and built two businesses from the ground up. While I was doing the inner work to build Her Lamp, entrepreneurs began finding their way to me in my private practice. Beginning founders who were paralyzed by fear and self-doubt. Veteran business owners who had the strategy, but could not get out of their own way. Women who were talented and driven, but carrying emotional weight they had never been given the space to put down. I began combining clinical therapeutic tools with real business strategy. I helped women clear the internal blocks and build the external frameworks that would move their businesses forward. That intersection of mental fortitude and business strategy became my passion and the foundation of Her Lamp.
Entrepreneurship taught me that building a business is really about building you. It's about learning how to build wealth without losing your soul. How to lead with faith in the middle of uncertainty. And how healing and strategy are never separate work. They are one and the same. Her Lamp is everything I learned, packaged for the woman who is up next. It is an honor to walk alongside you on the most empowering journey you will ever take.
Tamara is a wonderful therapist who has been a pleasure to work alongside through the heaviness of the last year on Maui. She is an engaging therapist with a wealth of experience. I appreciated her sharing her knowledge and expertise throughout our time working together, it has definitely helped my growth as a clinician. I would highly recommend her for support to anyone seeking improvement of their mental and emotional well-being.
Ms. Slay is the best in her field, she has gotten me through the darkest times in my life and showed me better things of life. She’ll always treat you with kindness and compassion and will always want better for you.
Tamara is a unique gem and blessing to the world that I’m grateful to have crossed paths with. She has helped me to navigate tough times in my life while also showing me that there is still light even in the midst of darkness. She is truly gifted at what she does. Never have I felt like I was being “evaluated” or “examined” but rather have been ASSURED that I am not alone, I am not misunderstood, I am not a burden and that is okay to not be okay at times. She does not look at you as a client, instead she stands with you as an ally & confidant in your time(s) of need. Because of her I believe there is still good in this dark world and have hope for myself that I have a purpose in it as well.
Tamara is a beautiful soul and a compassionate heart. She’s has a gift & ability to see into the worlds of others and her experience has equipped with tools she can offer to fix parts which need healing. She is truly someone worth meeting in this life, her knowledge and awareness alone set her apart, but it is her heart, her thoughtfulness, her genuine curiosity and her listening ear which creates an environment conducive for healing wherever she is. Tamara also carries with her wisdom from a divine source, which illuminates the mind to see horizons beyond bleakness, she is truly a gift from God
Tamara is a great therapist with a sweet spirit. Her extensive knowledge of holistic healing sets her apart and she is committed to nurturing her clients' mind, body, and spirit. She brings profound wisdom and provides not just therapy, but soul healing and restoration. I highly recommend working with her!
My ongoing experience with Ms. Slay has been very positive. She creates a safe and welcoming space each time that I meet with her. She is dedicated to the well-being of her clients, and I am very fortunate to be one of them! Aloha.
Tamara is such a great person. Very understanding, knowledgeable, patient, and creates an environment for her patients to feel comfortable to talk about their problems.
Great therapist! She is a very good listener and support. She has a caring demeanor and is easy to talk to. Sometimes it’s nice to have someone to share your stories with and work through things.
Tamara has been my therapist since January of 2026 and it has been such an amazing experience with her. She allows me space to vent, process my thoughts and emotions, and allowed me to grow on my own. She provides a safe space for me to talk about my past and present but also hold me accountable for my actions and ways to turn negative actions and thoughts into positive ones that help guide me through my everyday. Thanks to her I’m learning to build my boundaries , speak up for myself, and also form healthy habits and relationships. You don’t know how grateful I am for her and how much of a positive impact she’s had on my life. She’s humble so she always says it’s all me but I know I wouldn’t be where I am in my life now if it wasn’t for her help and guidance.
Tamara met me where I was. Moving to a new place, having done a ton of self reflection, wanting more from life. She’s helped motivate me and listened to me. If you’re looking for a therapist who won’t enable your bad behavior and who will challenge your thoughts - look here. I needed online therapy and felt intimidated by it not being in person. She’s never distracted, always on time, and has clear audio.
Great experience. Tamara creates a comfortable, relaxed environment from the beginning. I appreciated that she kept sessions light and engaging while still being productive. She is personable and has a great sense of humor as well, which made me feel comfortable opening up. It really made me look forward to my sessions. I would highly recommend her to anyone looking for a supportive and skilled therapist.
Working with Tamara has been a really positive experience. She creates a safe, welcoming space where I feel comfortable opening up without fear of judgment. Tamara listens with care and offers thoughtful guidance that has helped me understand myself better and grow in a healthy way. I appreciate her patience, professionalism, and the practical tools she shares. I’m truly grateful for her support and would highly recommend her to anyone looking for a compassionate therapist.
Tamara is an amazing therapist! I have been so grateful to work with her while navigating through some difficult transitions and seeking clarity about my future in my professional and personal life. She is able to appropriately challenge me while also being thoughtful, understanding and supportive. I cannot thank Tamara enough and highly recommend her to anyone seeking a compassionate and skilled therapist!
Tamara was incredibly easy to talk to. She made me feel comfortable, so much I wanted to tell her experiences in my life that I hadn’t shared with anyone else. I would highly recommend her, because she helped me progress by giving me an understanding of myself and actual daily methods to manage my life in a healthy way. Thank you!
Working with Tamara has been a wonderful experience. Her steady presence, thoughtful listening and patient guidance has been so appreciated during a time full of stress, life changes and transitions. I looked forward to each of our sessions and always came away with something meaningful. I would highly recommend Tamara to anyone needing a compassionate and knowledgeable therapist.
Best therapist ever. Without her I’d be losing my mind. She makes time for me & is super considerate regardless of my work schedule. I enjoy speaking with Tamara & being able to be comfortable enough to speak about things that bother/ excite me.
Tamara is such a wonderful woman! she takes her time and listens she’s very patient and gentle with her clients i thank her for helping me with past and to day obstacles
Tamara is amazing. She listens closely and picks up on things I don’t even realize I’m saying. She’s helped me sort through a lot, and as an artist, that’s very important to me. Our sessions always leave me feeling clearer, more grounded, and more connected to my creativity. I highly recommend.
Tamara really helped me through my postpartum depression! I really recommend! Shes really good at listening and adding input.
Tamara is such a genuine person. She truly made me feel safe opening up to her about my post partum experience with my second baby. I was very open to therapy but still worried that I wouldn’t feel comfortable enough to be honest about my struggles. Tamara instantly made me feel comfortable and not judged at all. I’m so grateful I had her as a safe space during such a difficult time in my life. She truly cares about her job and helping others.
PAY MONTHLY
$100/month
A live training call with Tamara every month
Hot seat coaching
Full access to the Her Lamp program
Private community
PAY ANNUALLY
$1,000/year
Everything included in Monthly
2 months free — 12 months for the price of 10
Best value for women committed to the full journey